How To Develop Superstar Charisma

Think of famous people who have had charisma – John Kennedy, Marilyn Monroe, George Clooney, Barack Obama – people who could walk into a room and the room would go silent. Charisma is that unmistakeable power to attract people, attract attention, and gain power over others.

Charisma is no accident – it is a result of well-rehearsed, tested behaviors. A person with charisma may appear to be relaxed, nonchalant, and in control, but their every move is often scripted. But we all know the power of charisma, so how do you get some?

The people mentioned above all have many similar personality and conversational characteristics. One of the easiest things they have all done to gain the attention of others is to speak slowly. By speaking slowly, and deliberately, it seems as if every word they say is somehow more thoughtful and important. Compare the slow speech patterns of preachers who command attention to that of fast-talking salesmen who you couldn’t run away from fast enough.

Posture is another part of charisma. Have you ever noticed that people with charisma are taller than most? Actually, they aren’t – they just seem that way. By appearing taller, you will seem more in control and more confident.

Be cool. Nothing says “charisma” like a cool, calm, unruffled man. Think of George Clooney – good looking, well-tailored, happy and calm. He is not easily drawn into a fight and can turn away from harassment. People who bother him are not worth his time and everyone knows it.

No matter how you feel, a smile is always appropriate. The true sign of a person with charisma is that they bring light to a room and that light begins with their smile. Never show that you are agitated and never show too much excitement. A nice level head means that every word out of your mouth, every motion, every glance or smile is somehow more meaningful.

The best way to obtain charisma is to study those who have it. Do your research and find out what it is about them that makes them so attractive. You may find that it is not their looks at all, but a personal style, a confidence, an ability to tell a good tale, an ease with others that makes them so charismatic. Study their style and copy it and you too will become a man with charisma.